Managing your own money
Managing money can mean different things to different people.
As a younger person, it might mean having pocket money and saving up for something.
As someone gets older, it can mean budgeting, paying bills and managing benefits.
Read our tips to help you manage your budget.
Under 18
From age 11, you can have a bank account in your own name. But you'll need your parents' permission to open an account, as they'll need to provide proof of your identity and address.
From age 16, you can open a bank account without asking your parents.
If your parents set up a savings account for you, it’s likely that you cannot use the money in it until you’re 18. This will depend on the account’s rules.
Managing a prepaid card
Parents or guardians can add money to prepaid or top-up cards for people under 18 to use.
You can use the card to pay for things online or in shops or sometimes withdraw money at cash machines (ATMs).
Using this type of card can be a good way to start managing your money with help from family.
Choosing a bank account
Banks and building societies have various types of accounts. The main ones are:
- a current account where you can manage your income, bills and spending
- a savings account
- a student account for people in college or university
It’s a good idea to look at different accounts and what they offer before you decide.
Find a bank account that’s right for you (MoneySavingExpert)
Opening a bank account
To open a bank account, you’ll need to:
- get your parent or guardian’s permission if you are under 16
- show ID and proof of your address if you are 16 or over
- complete an application form online, in person or by phone
Check the bank’s website to see what type of ID they accept.
How to open a bank account (Citizens Advice)
Supporting yourself financially - a guide for young adults aged 16 to 24 (MoneyHelper)
United Response offers easy read guides on banking.
If you cannot open a bank account
The Payment Exception Service allows you to collect benefit or pension payments without a bank account.
The service is only available if you cannot open a bank account.
Warning Online banking and spending
Learn My Way is free but you have to register for useful training on:
From age 18
You must be 18 before you can:
- apply for a credit card or store card
- have an overdraft
- apply for a loan
- get a tenancy agreement to rent a property
- apply for a mortgage to help you buy a house
Getting a credit card when you’re under 21 (Finder)
If you apply for credit, make sure you can afford repayments.
When you’re 18 and a bank account is in your name, you can add another person to help you manage it. For example, a family member or friend.
Banks sometimes call this a third party mandate.
You can also remove someone from your bank account if you wish.
If you make a mistake with a payment
Sometimes mistakes happen when you’re transferring money or paying for things. For example, sometimes people transfer money to the wrong bank account. Or transfer the wrong amount.
Contact the bank as soon as you can. Let them know what has happened. It’s likely that they can fix the problem for you.
How do I get my money back if I've made a bank transfer to the wrong account? (Which?)
Talking about managing your own money
Not everyone feels comfortable talking about money. But being open with people you trust can help everyone feel reassured.
Create a budget
A budget is a plan to decide how to use your money. For example, you might want to spend or save some.
Try using a free budget planner to help you think about how you can manage your money.
To avoid forgetting to pay bills, you can:
- set up reminders on your phone
- set up an automatic payment, such as Direct Debits, standing orders and recurring card payments (MoneyHelper)
You are in control of your money
When you are 18, no one else can manage your money unless:
- they are your appointee (someone who helps you manage benefits)
- they are your property and financial affairs deputy (who makes decisions for someone who lacks mental capacity)
- you have a lasting power of attorney (where you choose people you trust to help you make decisions)
If your parents do not let you manage your money or do not think you can make your own decisions, you can:
- ask someone you trust for help speaking with your parents
- get free advice from MoneyHelper
- contact Citizens Advice for help
Contact the charity Mind or your GP if money worries are affecting your mental health.
Warning No one should pressure you to do things with your money
Mate crime is when someone says they are your friend but takes advantage of you. For example, asking you for money or to buy them things.
If someone is putting pressure on you to spend or lend money or do things you do not want to do:
- speak with someone you trust
- or contact the Financial Support line for free advice on 08081 968 845
- or contact 999 if you feel that you’re in danger
Money and social care
When you manage your own money, you may want to manage your social care package too.
Depending on your situation, you may decide to:
- manage direct payments yourself
- or ask the council to manage direct payments for you
You need to be 16 or over to manage your direct payments.
If you decide to manage them yourself, you may have to deal with some admin, like taxes and holiday pay for carers. You can ask the council’s direct payments team for support with this.
The council can help you decide what's right for you.
Find out more about direct payments.
Learn about managing money
There are lots of ways to learn about managing money. You could start with:
- MoneyHelper free Government-backed guidance on money
- MoneySavingExpert financial education for young people
- Dosh has easy read guides to managing money
- Money Made Easier (United Response)
- Scope's online money forum to chat with other people in similar situations
You could also contact your local council who might have a service that helps people manage their money.
Last reviewed by Scope on: 06/08/2024
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