This information applies to England and Wales.
Disability Living Allowance (DLA) can help with the extra costs of bringing up a disabled child.
You can claim DLA for each disabled child under 16 who:
DLA is based on the support your child needs, not their condition or impairment. You can apply even if your child does not have a formal diagnosis.
Easy read: Disability Living Allowance for children (GOV.UK)
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Your claim starts from the date you call the Disability Living Allowance helpline (GOV.UK).
You have 6 weeks to complete the form and post it to the Department for Work and Pensions (DWP). This means that if successful, you will get money for those 6 weeks.
If you download the DLA form (GOV.UK), your claim will start from when the DWP receives your form.
DLA cannot be backdated before your claim date. This date is either from when you call for a claim form or from when the DWP receives your printed form.
Calling the DWP starts your claim period earlier.
The DLA form asks for descriptions of how your child’s condition affects daily life. It is up to you to provide examples to show your child is eligible. This can be a challenging experience for parents.
DLA has care and mobility components. Your child may be eligible for one or both. Each component has different rates of payment. The DWP decides the amount you receive based on your child’s needs. DLA does not have a points system.
Your child will either get:
They are more likely to get a fixed award if they have a condition that is temporary or may change over time.
If your child needs:
If your child:
Children under 3 are not eligible for the mobility component.
The information booklet and form for claiming DLA is over 60 pages.
If you cannot access the form, ask the DWP for another format.
About 40 pages are the form you need to complete. Half the questions are tick boxes or personal information.
Give yourself plenty of time to complete the form. It can help to gather evidence first so that you have ideas of what to write. You could also ask family, friends and professionals who know your child well for ideas on describing their needs.
If you make a mistake, cross it out and carry on. You can also ask for another form if needed.
If you need more space than the form allows, you can include extra information on separate sheets of paper.
It can be emotional describing details of your child’s condition. Ask someone to help with this, such as a health professional, support worker or teacher, friend or family member.
You can also get support from:
The benefit process can be stressful. There are things you can do if it Is affecting your mental health. These can include:
Support if claiming benefits affects your mental health
If your child’s mental health means they find it hard to go to school or do daily tasks, they could claim benefits. These will depend on the criteria, but can include depression or anxiety.
Try to keep a diary of how your child’s condition affects them. This could be a notebook or piece of paper stuck to the fridge. It should be something easy to find, fill in and refer to. Use the diary to help you complete the form. Do not send it as evidence.
Citizens Advice diary template
Write down everything your child needs during a day in as much detail as possible. Talk about both your child’s emotional and physical needs.
Think about how your child:
Speak with anyone involved in your child’s care, such as their therapists, doctor, social worker or teacher. Everyone will have a different perspective.
Think about the everyday things you do. It may seem obvious to you, but it may not be to the assessor. Give detail and say if things happen sometimes, a lot or all the time.
Do not write: “Cannot dress himself.”
Do write: “My child needs help getting dressed every morning. He cannot put his arms through the sleeves of his t-shirt without my help. Every night my child needs help to take off his t-shirt and to put on his pyjamas.”
Do not write: “I help my child go to the toilet 5 times a day.”
Do write: “My child needs help going to the toilet 5 times a day. She needs help removing her underwear and I have to clean and wash her after every visit to the toilet.”
The person making the decision is not a medical person. Use simple language in your answers. You should describe your child’s condition, but you do not have to use medical terms. The important thing is to describe how the condition affects your child’s daily life.
The DWP will compare your child with a non-disabled child of the same age. Concentrate on your child’s additional needs. The assessor knows that most children aged 3 need some help eating. If your child is unable to eat without you feeding them and they get frustrated or upset, explain this.
Provide examples of your child’s bad days.
What seems normal or easy to you or your child might not be to others.
Make sure you include everything that is difficult or impossible to do, even if it is not every day. And explain why it is difficult or impossible.
Include as much evidence as you can, such as:
Do not include:
Your child does not need a diagnosis to claim DLA.
Your child could be eligible if they need more support than a non-disabled child of the same age.
Try to keep copies of evidence. You could do this by:
Copies can be helpful:
You may not get your evidence back.
If posting, use a signed for service if you can. Keep a proof of posting so that you have a record of:
If you claim other benefits, you might get the disabled child rate or addition added to that benefit. This could mean you receive more money.
You could be eligible if you receive:
Your child also needs to:
What else you are entitled to when your child gets DLA
The amount of money you receive will depend on what rate of care component your child gets.
Contact the DLA helpline as soon as possible to let the DWP know of any changes in circumstances.
You should tell them if:
Their age can affect their claim too. When a child turns 3, they may be eligible for the higher mobility component rate. When they turn 16, they will receive a letter about moving from DLA to PIP.
The DWP might ask for more information to decide your child’s claim. For example, if their condition is worse, you may need to show medical reports.
If you disagree with the new decision, you can appeal it.
If you do not report a change in circumstances, you could receive an overpayment which you’ll need to pay back. You can also be fined.
If you report a change within 1 month of it happening, any extra money should be backdated to the date you reported the change. If you report a change late, explain why. It may still be backdated if you have a good reason for reporting it late.
To check if a change might affect your child’s claim, it is best to report it to the DWP.
Once the DWP has assessed your form, they could:
This could include a physical assessment (Capita).
If you disagree with the DWP’s decision, you can appeal it.
Last reviewed by Scope on: 16/01/2025
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